I am a life coach and content creator for divorced women. I focus on helping divorced women heal and rebuild their lives.
[FIRST NAME GOES HERE] please call a duck a duck
This Is How to Recognize, Define & Verbalize
Abusive Behavior
Hi Love!
Have you ever heard of the saying, “If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, then it’s probably a duck”?
The reason I bring this up is because so many times women who have been verbally or emotionally abused during their marriage don’t recognize the signs and symptoms of abuse. I was one of those women, who even after the divorce, rationalized my ex-husband's behavior down to “we just grew apart”.
Uhh, NO….we didn’t just grow apart….he just grew more abusive!
It’s important to call a duck a duck because if a woman doesn't describe this behavior for what it REALLY is, she is denying herself the opportunity to validate her own experience. This in turn will make it difficult for her to get the appropriate support that she needs.
Telling a therapist that you and your spouse “grew apart” is a totally different conversation than “he was abusive and I couldn’t take it anymore”.
This is the reason that you must be able to recognize, define, and verbalize your experience with the correct language. This will be the beginning of you unpacking your own experience to reclaim your power.
In this week’s video you will learn to:
🔍 Unveil the Secret: Discover why recognizing and naming your pain is the first step toward healing.
🔥 Decode Your Experience: Understand how to define and express your emotions to create a roadmap for overcoming past trauma.
🚩 Spot Red Flags: Learn how this knowledge can empower you to spot warning signs and set firm boundaries for a brighter future.
This is one of the many topics I will discuss in my upcoming course, Thrive Beyond Divorce: Empowering Women to Recover, Rediscover, and Reinvent After Divorce (coming soon!)
Watch this week’s video here and let me know which words impacted you the most.
Watch this week's video and let me know how it impacted you.
So excited to share that I just started a new Meet-Up group that will take place online with a few in-person events sprinkled in at times.
First Group Call, 12/21, 6:30 pm - 7:30 pm, click the link here to get your spot!!!
This will allow me to have more time to spend discussing topics that are important to women who have gone through a divorce or separation and want support and community as they move forward.
My goal is to make this a nationwide group to spread CCC across the country and to unite women on the goal of healing the past and creating an amazing, abundant future!!
Feel free to share with other women who want to be a part of and support the community.
To your Joy, Happiness, and Freedom,
Creator of Clarity, Confidence, Courage
www.cccwomensempowerment.com
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Hi I'm Tiffiny J.!
I am a life coach and content creator for divorced women. I focus on helping divorced women heal and rebuild their lives.
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